Going on a vacation is likely one of the highlights of a child’s year. Yet, trying to make a vacation work after a parent’s divorce can lead to challenges that might take some effort to overcome.
When both parents can work as a team to set up vacation plans, children may be able to have experiences they wouldn’t have otherwise. If you co-parent with your ex, considering these tips may help you to work through common challenges that are inspired by trying to make vacation plans with kids post-divorce.
Setting the schedule
For many parents, trying to determine the dates of a vacation is one of the most difficult tasks. The parenting plan may stipulate that vacation dates trump the regular parenting schedule. This gives the parents a bit more flexibility in choosing the dates.
Factoring in transportation
As you consider the dates, be sure to leave enough time between getting the kids and leaving for the trip, as well as between returning and the children going to their other parent’s home. Giving yourself ample time can reduce the stress of the situation for everyone involved.
Determining the location
The location of the vacation is another major consideration. Before you decide where to go, check the parenting plan to determine if there are any restrictions on travel. In some cases, you may need to have the other parent’s permission or the court’s permission to take the children out of a specific geographic area.
Planning for communication
Parents must plan for communication with the other parent. This may start with giving them the information about where you’re going with the children. You also need to plan times for the children to contact their other parent. This might be phone calls, but it can also be video chats, texts or emails.
Making sure your vacation plans comply with the terms of your parenting agreement is critical. If your parenting plan doesn’t allow for the vacation you envision, it might be necessary to seek a modification or work with your ex to change the terms. Working with a legal representative who understands the intricacies of your case and how the law applies to it might be beneficial.